Becoming a S.A.V.V.Y. Bride

There is more to being a savvy bride than keeping up with the latest fashions and wedding trends. Being a savvy bride means being in tune with yourself, your fiancé, your finances and your future while you plan your big day. Follow the steps below, and you will be well on your way!
S Sensitive – remain sensitive to those around you throughout the wedding planning process. Your wedding day may not be the best day of everyone’s life, who is around you and supporting you. Friends may still be searching for their own Prince Charming, family members may be struggling with relationships or dealing with illnesses and everyone you know has a life that spans far beyond the question of to be or not to be….tulle or lace, teal or turquoise.
A Aware – Be aware of the wedding industry as opposed to reality. You will be marketed to on a variety of levels that evoke emotion, question your understanding of etiquette, promise perfect skin and silhouette, and all in all, cost you more money. Make sure that the decisions you make reflect your own style and honor your relationship. Stay away from trying to impress or outdo your guests, and be true to yourself.
V Vision – Sit down with your fiancé and map out your vision for your wedding. Talk about what you see when you are walking down the aisle – (if there even needs to be an aisle!) Discuss what you hear – is it the traditional wedding march or an instrumental version of your favorite Coldplay song? Do you want to dance, or would you prefer not to? You may decide that City Hall offers a lot less fuss or see yourself on top of a mountain as you say your I Do’s. In any event, take the time to “see” your big day before jumping into the planning right away.
V Virtual – You’re undoubtedly a busy gal – who isn’t these days? Make the planning process easier by vitalizing it! Send your save the dates out via email and let your wedding website update your guests on your registry needs. Web-based wedding resources abound and can help you save a lot of money, so get online to do your research before making any decisions!
Y Yourself – Remember to take time for yourself and your fiancé as well as your family and friends. Make healthy choices and maintain a good eating and exercise plan. If there are changes you hope to make in your lifestyle, i.e. getting more sleep or cutting back on the wine, now’s the time to implement those good habits so you are starting your marriage fresh. Most importantly, be good to yourself – starvation diets or rants about seating charts do not a savvy bride make. Have fun and your future will be as bright as your smile!